'In love with my First Love - Father YHUH'
RENEWED MINDS and PURE HEARTS, TRANSFORMED by the LOVE of Mashiach (Messiah). Pursue COVENANT Relationship with YHUH (YHWH).
  • Home
  • PRAYER
  • Crawl
  • Walk
  • Run
  • Sprint
  • Seeds of Love
  • Challenges
  • Equipment
  • Obstacles
  • FATHER & SON's COVENANT Scriptural Names
  • Instructions (Torah) of YHWH
  • YHWH'S Scriptural CALENDAR
  • COVENANT with Father YHUH/YHWH
  • WORSHIP in SPIRIT and TRUTH
  • Personal and other TESTIMONIES
  • Teachings/Short Studies
  • PROPHETIC NEWS
  • CONTACT us
  • Dedicated to the Bride -- Restored YisraEL
  • SEX and the Word of YHWH
  • TESTIMONIES of Covenant Guarding family
  • LIFE-TRANSFORMING SEMINAR
  • Beautiful NATURE Pictures with Inspiring Scriptures
Picture
ELCOME to this important page about the love between a man and a woman from a [Scriptural] perspective.
The vast majority of believers have NOT BEEN TAUGHT, nor UNDERSTAND the DNA of a successful relationship (through the eyes of our CREATOR and HEAVENLY FATHER, through His WORD of TRUTH).
The majority of believers seek their [own] husband/wife, NOT UNDERSTANDING that The ONE Who created and formed them, and knows them better than anyone else, has already CHOSEN their husband/wife, even before they were born.
The IMPATIENCE of [men] and [women] to satisfy/meet their own FLESHLY DESIRES or EMOTIONAL NEEDS, often drive them to choose a spouse based on what they [THINK] they need, whereas their CREATOR [KNOWS] what they need!
This very often result in COMPROMISE and SIN, leading to immoral sexual behavior, driven by the spirit of FEAR and LUST. We should be driven by FAITH (BELIEF), guided by the Ruach (Spirit) of Almighty YHUH (YHWH), and NOT driven by our flesh, or our emotions. 


Any relationship driven by a spirit of FEAR - through the LUSTS of the FLESH, IMPATIENCE, and EMOTIONAL INSTABILITY will lead to SIN, resulting in much HURT, PAIN, SUFFERING, and BONDAGE.
Any relationship driven by FAITH (BELIEF), through the guidance of the Ruach (Spirit) of Almighty YHUH (YHWH), and based on TRUST in Father YHUH to bless you with your husband/wife aligned to His plans and purposes for you - in His time and in His way, will result in a life of BLESSING, JOY, HOPE, and PEACE.     

This page endures to guide you to make an INFORMED decision, based on SOUND SCRIPTURAL knowledge and understanding.

Picture

To UNDERSTAND marriage from a Scriptural perspective with scriptural references, click on the image below to take you to a short teaching I shared on facebook during early 2016.

Picture

Picture
Picture
Picture
Picture
Picture
A COUPLE who have their foundation in the Word of ELohim (Almighty) & choose their relationship with Almighty Father YHUH (YHWH) first, and pray together will most likely STAY TOGETHER through the good and bad times!
Picture
Picture
Picture
We should GUARD AGAINST being driven by any spirit of fear - fear of being alone - fear of not being good enough - fear of not being accepted - fear of not finding our spouse.
FEAR opens the door to satan, but BELIEF (FAITH) in Father YHUH (YHWH) will release your spouse to you WHEN both of you are [ready and prepared] for this COVENANT, instituted and ordained by ELohim (Almighty).

Almighty Father YHUH has ALREADY CHOSEN your spouse FOR you, even BEFORE both of you were conceived. If you believe IN Him, then also BELIEVE that He KNOWS BETTER than you do! He knows who will be your best fit. You DON'T have to go and look for your spouse in club's, bar's, on the internet, around every corner, etc.

DATING IS NOT SCRIPTURAL! We don't read about dating anywhere in Scripture. Dating is [UNBELIEF], and thus [FEAR in action]. Let's NOT follow the traditions of man to test the waters before getting married. WE WILL GET HURT!

Picture
ELohim's (Almighty)  WORD on Sexual Immorality
I greet you with Shalom in the Name of Messiah Yahusha.
{Completeness, wholeness, health, peace, welfare, safety soundness, tranquility, prosperity, perfectness, fullness, rest, harmony, the absence of agitation, strive, or discord}.  


The AIM of this teaching is NOT to judge or condemn anyone reading it, but to INFORM and TEACH you about the DANGERS of engaging into any form of immoral sexual behavior. We are created as spiritual beings - therefore everything we do have CONSEQUENCES IN THE SPIRIT, but also in the NATURAL (having thoughts and emotions of GUILT, SHAME, DEPRESSION, ANGER, BITTERNESS, etc).

This teaching/study is presented to you based on personal experience, making many relational mistakes along the way. I have 13 years of counselling experience, working with many individuals and couples during this time. I trust that the Ruach (Spirit) of Almighty YHUH (YHWH) will minister to you as you read this. Test it against His Word and the heart of Ab/Abbah (FATHER) YHUH. Please take the time to read and study the whole teaching for proper insight an understanding.

 
Bereshith (Genesis) 1:26-28
Then Elohim (Almighty) said, "Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness. They will rule the fish of the sea, the birds of the sky, the animals, all the earth, and the creatures that crawl on the earth." So Elohim created man in His own image; He created him in the image of Elohim; He created them male and female. Elohim blessed them, and Elohim said to them, "Be fruitful, multiply, fill the earth, and subdue it. Rule the fish of the sea, the birds of the sky, and every creature that crawls on the earth."


The FIRST COMMAND to MAN - BE FRUITFUL and MULTIPLY (CREATE a OFFSPRING for ELohim (Almighty)
(not using our [sexual] organs for pleasure outside of marriage).

Yohanan (John) 4:24
Elohim is spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.

In the above scripture we clearly CONCLUDE that Elohim (Almighty) is SPIRIT [remembering that we were created in His likeness & image - thus we are also SPIRIT, having a SOUL and living in a BODY - which according to Scripture is the sanctuary/temple of The Ruach (Spirit) of YHUH (Yahuah)] - therefore everything we do in the natural will have an effect in the spirit. 


1 Qorin'tiyim (Corinthians) 7:2-6
But because of whoring, let each one have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband render to his wife what is her due, and likewise also the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another except with agreement for a time, to give yourselves to fasting and prayer. And come together again so that Satan does not try you because of your lack of self-control. And I say this as a concession, not as a command.


Ibrim (Hebrew) 13:4
Let marriage be respected by all, and the bed be undefiled. But Elohim shall judge those who whore, and adulterers.


1Qorin'tiyim (Corinthians) 6:15-20
Do you not know that your bodies are members of Messiah? Shall I then take the members of Messiah and make them members of a whore? Let it not be! Or do you not know that he who is joined to a whore is one body? For He says, “The two shall become one flesh.” And he who is joined to the Master is one spirit. Flee whoring. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits whoring sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is the Dwelling Place of the Set-apart Spirit who is in you, which you have from Elohim, and you are not your own? For you were bought with a price, therefore esteem Elohim in your body and in your spirit, which are of Elohim.


It was Ab/Abbah (FATHER’s) plan to unite man and woman to become ONE in MARRIAGE, and from them FATHER desired [set-apart] OFFSPRING that would worship Him in a personal, [covenant], love relationship.

satan (the devil) perverted this desire of FATHER YHUH.
he SEDUCED both man and woman through evil spirits and their own desires to have sex outside of marriage, defiling them personally, as well as defiling their marriage bed. Sexual immorality breaks the harmony and union of any family unit, and cause much hurt, pain, bitterness, and unforgiveness. Sexual immorality leads to sin, death in the flesh, and ultimately eternal damnation to hell. When anyone have sex outside of marriage, they become ONE (in spirit and body) with the person who they have sex with {as can clearly be understood in the Scripture quoted above}. It literally means that
all the [evil spirits] in the person who you have sex with are transferred to you, and these spirits can either possess or oppress you.  

Let's use the example of an [innocent and ignorant] woman who have sex with a man who was involved in satanism. If this man has slept with 6 other women before sleeping with this innocent woman (2 being involved in prostitution, 2 being alcoholics, and another 2 being drug addicts), his spirit of satanism (serving satan and his demons), as well as all the spirits of all the women that he has slept with in the past are then TRANSFERRED to this innocent and ignorant woman. These spirits get LEGAL RIGHT to oppress or possess her, making her life a [living] hell. She starts having thoughts that she never had before - she gets bad nightmares, and can even have experiences with demons trying to strangle her in her sleep, tormenting her, mostly through her dreams . . . she struggles with emotions of shame and self-pity, and she can never seem to be successful in any relationship with a man (because of her being defiled and even possessed by evil spirits, and because of her crooked belief/value system of love).   

PLEASE DO NOT be IGNORANT and CAUGHT in satan's trap - I have personally experienced people being oppressed and even possessed through counseling sessions . . . satan and his demons will temp you into having sex. They will deceive you until you [give-in], believing that it's okay and part of "growing up", or part of how it "should be" . . . do NOT believe the LIE, and through the lie allow satan to control your life - he will make life unbearable for you, stealing and taking everything that is valuable and precious to you - destroying all your relationships, bringing sickness and disease to you, breaking you down day-by-day, until the point where he will attempt to take your life. 
This is NOT INNOCENT FUN!!!
          


1Qorin'tiyim (Corinthains) 10:8-13
Neither should we commit whoring, as some of them did, and in one day twenty-three thousand fell, neither let us try Messiah, as some of them also tried, and were destroyed by serpents, neither grumble, as some of them also grumbled, and were destroyed by the destroyer. And all these came upon them as examples, and they were written as a warning to us, on whom the ends of the ages have come, so that he who thinks he stands, let him take heed lest he fall. No trial has overtaken you except such as is common to man, and Elohim is trustworthy, who shall not allow you to be tried beyond what you are able, but with the trial shall also make the way of escape, enabling you to bear it.


Galatiyim (Galatians) 5:17-21,25
For the flesh lusts against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh. And these are opposed to each other, so that you do not do what you desire to do. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under Torah(law). And the works of the flesh are well-known, which are [these]: adultery, whoring, uncleanness, indecency, idolatry, drug sorcery, hatred, quarrels, jealousies, fits of rage, selfish ambitions, dissensions, factions, envy, murders, drunkenness, wild parties, and the like – of which I forewarn you, even as I also said before, that those who practice such as these shall not inherit the reign of Elohim. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.


Eph'siyim (Ephesians) 5:3-5
But whoring and all uncleanness, or greed of gain, let it not even be named among you, as is proper among set-apart ones – neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather thanksgiving. For this you know, that no one who whores, nor unclean one, nor one greedy of gain, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the reign of Messiah and Elohim.



Let’s look at an example from the First Covenant (Old Testament) and see what devastation sexual immorality led to . . . 
Yehezqel (Ezekiel) 23:1-4
And the word of יהוה (YHUH) came to me, saying, “Son of man, there were two women, daughters of one mother. “And they whored in Mitsrayim, they whored in their youth. There their breasts were handled, and there their maiden nipples were squeezed. “And their names were: Oholah the elder and Oholiḇah her sister. And they were Mine, and they bore sons and daughters. And their names: Shomeron is Oholah, and Yerushalayim (Jerusalem) is Oholiḇah.


In the above Scripture we can CLEARLY see and understand that fondling with a woman's breasts or any other inappropriate touching is UNACCEPTABLE to Ab/Abbah FATHER YHUH (and described in the above Scriptures as acting like prostitutes). In this portion of Scripture (Eze 23) these sisters' actions led to severe judgment. They were maltreated and died horrible deaths . . .

What about FRENCH-KISSING? Is it acceptable for people outside of marriage?
Again, we do not read about it anywhere in Scripture. It should be EVIDENT to all who have french-kissed before marriage that it [awakens] certain sensations in both male and female's bodies, arousing them physically. This arousal leads to UNPURE THOUGHTS and LUSTFUL DESIRE that almost always leads to sexual promiscuity. French kissing is part of [foreplay] and should ONLY be practiced within the safety of the covenant of marriage. 
Songs of Songs WARNS us to NOT STIR-UP or AWAKEN LOVE (Son 2:7 and 3:5)


Yehezqel (Ezekiel) 23:5-11, 17-23
“And Oholah whored while she was Mine. And she lusted for her lovers, the neighboring Ashshurians, dressed in purple, officers and rulers, all of them desirable young men, horsemen riding on horses. “So she gave her whorings on them, all of them choice sons of Ashshur. And with all for whom she lusted, with all their idols, she defiled herself. “And she did not forsake her whorings from Mitsrayim (Egypt), for in her youth they had lain with her, and they squeezed her maiden nipples, and poured out their whorings on her. “Therefore I have given her into the hand of her lovers, into the hand of the Ashshurians, for whom she lusted. “They uncovered her nakedness, they took away her sons and daughters, and slew her with the sword. And she became a byword among women, and they executed judgments on her. “And her sister Oholiḇah saw this, yet she became more corrupt in her lust than she, and in her whorings more corrupt than her sister’s whorings.
“And the Baḇelians came to her, into the bed of love, and they defiled her with their whorings. And she was defiled by them, and her being turned from them in disgust. “And she uncovered her whorings and uncovered her nakedness. Then I turned My being from her in disgust, as My being had turned from her sister in disgust. “And she increased her whorings, remembering the days of her youth, when she whored in the land of Mitsrayim. “And she lusted after her lovers, whose flesh is like the flesh of donkeys, and whose emission is like the emission of horses. “Thus you longed for the wickedness of your youth, when the Mitsrites squeezed your nipples because of the breasts of your youth. “Therefore, Oholiḇah, thus said the Master יהוה (YHUH), ‘See, I am stirring up your lovers against you, from whom your being turned in disgust, and shall bring them against you from every side: the Baḇelians, and all the Chaldeans, Peqoḏ, and Showa, and Qowa, all the sons of Ashshur with them, all of them desirable young men, governors and rulers, officers and men of name, all of them riding on horses.


Yehezqel (Ezekiel) 23:35-37
“Therefore thus said the Master יהוה (YHUH), ‘Because you have forgotten Me and cast Me behind your back, therefore you shall bear your wickedness and your whorings.’ ” And YHUH  said to me, “Son of man, judge Oholah and Oholiḇah! And declare to them their abominations. “For they have committed adultery, and blood is on their hands. And they have committed adultery with their idols, and even offered their sons whom they bore to Me, passing them through [the fire], to devour".


Mishley (Proverbs) 7:10,11,21,22,24-27
And look, a woman met him, Dressed like a whore, With a hidden heart. She was boisterous and stubborn, Her feet did not stay at her own house.
With her many words she leads him astray, With her smooth lips she seduces him. He goes after her immediately, Like an ox he goes to the slaughter, And as in chains, a fool to the punishment.
And now, listen to me, you children; Pay attention to the words of my mouth: Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, Do not go astray in her paths. For many are the wounded she has caused to fall, And numerous all her slain ones. Her house is the way to the grave, Going down to the rooms of death.

Sexual sin is an abomination before our Almighty. He despises any act of sexual immorality (including caressing or fondling of a woman’s breasts, or a male or female’s genitals). There are definite consequences to this sin and it will be judged severely . . . also remember what happened to Sodom and Gomorrah, which was completely destroyed because of their sexual sins [2Kepha (Peter) 2:6] - ELohim (ALMIGHTY) condemned the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah and destroyed them by burning them to ashes. He made those cities an example to "un"godly people of what is going to happen to them. 

So many believers fall into satan's trap of living together, justifying this sinful lifestyle because of a lack of finances.
We CANNOT and should NOT expect Father YAHUAH [through His Ruach (Spirit)] to bless any sexual activity outside of the covenant of Marriage!
In fact - we bring a curse upon any relationship if we allow it to be defiled by the lusts of our flesh.
Father YAHUAH will NOT bless any form of unrighteousness - i.e. lustful sexual behavior (even if it does not lead to penetration), as well as sex outside of marriage!
You are welcome to visit my webpage below for insight into PREPARING for the COVENANT of MARRIAGE!

http://www.covenantofmarriage.za.net/ 

BACKGROUND INFORMATION on the POWER DEMON [ASMODEE]
Those who associated with him in the past often call this power "The Stinker". His appearance is that of a fat and smelly demonic-looking “man”. He is tall in stature and walks very lightly with a spring in his step. He also possesses wings similar to those of Beelzebub. Asmodee is heavily involved with sexual immorality and he marries people for satan. He is responsible for the spirit of Yezebel in Scripture and often works with Ba'al [1Melakim (Kings) 16:30-33]. You can also see in 1Melakim (Kings) 18 how the prophets of YAHUAH were attacked through this Power. The Scriptures has much to say about the Yezebel spirit here and in the Book of Revelation.

Asmodee works primarily with the "Principality of Abaddon" and reports to him. The following problems in your life probably indicate the work of Asmodee . . .
1. Prostitution
2. Sexual perversion such as homosexuality, lesbianism, bestiality
3. Barrenness of the womb
4. Contempt for one’s spouse and marital conflict
5. Repeated divorces and the inability to form permanent, cohesive relationships of the deepest kinds such as marriage.
6. Miscarriage and the death of children.

Do you think Asmodee is active in the world? Sad to say he is also hard at work in the "Church" today . . .


You can go to the PRAYER PAGE on this website to view and download many RENUNCIATION PRAYERS to clean your bloodline from all (sexual) and other defilement, including demonic yokes and strongholds.

Picture
Picture
Picture
Picture
prayer_of_confession.doc
File Size: 25 kb
File Type: doc
Download File

dresscode.pdf
File Size: 236 kb
File Type: pdf
Download File

bodies_a_temple.doc
File Size: 39 kb
File Type: doc
Download File

identity_as_believer.doc
File Size: 73 kb
File Type: doc
Download File

relationships.doc
File Size: 53 kb
File Type: doc
Download File

freedom_abundantlife.doc
File Size: 52 kb
File Type: doc
Download File

Picture
Picture
Picture
1Yohanan (John) 5:3  
For this is the LOVE for Elohim (Almighty), that we guard His commands, and His commands are NOT heavy (difficult / a burden) . . .

2Yohanan (John) 1:6  
And this is the love, that we walk according to His commands. This is the command, that as you have heard FROM the BEGINNING (from Gen), you should WALK IN IT (Guard and Observe it) . . .